🧭 Not all leaders are built for all seasons. Find your sweet spot—and lead where you bring the most value.

Ever walked in someones shoes in their environment?

I recently spoke with someone who introduced themselves as a startup and innovation coach. Naturally, I was curious about their experience. So I asked whether they had ever worked in a startup or been involved in building something from scratch.

His answer? “No, not really. I prefer established environments with structure and clear processes.”

That conversation stuck with me. I think back to all the startup coaches I’ve met who’ve never started anything. Or angel investors who’ve never led a founding team, built a product, or made payroll at 1am.

How can you guide someone if you’ve never felt the weight they carry?

It made me realize how often we see people coaching or leading in environments they’ve never truly experienced themselves.

Leadership is not one-size-fits-all

We often treat leadership as a transferable skill—something you can apply the same way, regardless of the context. But that’s simply not true. Leadership is highly contextual. Each phase of a business demands a different mindset, skill set, and energy level.

• Some leaders are igniters – they thrive in chaos, see opportunity in uncertainty, and build from scratch.

• Others are scalers – they’re excellent at managing fast growth, building structure, and optimizing for performance.

• Then there are the stabilizers – they keep mature businesses running smoothly, improve efficiency, and manage risk.

• And finally, there are revivers – they’re at their best during downturns, navigating decline or relaunching businesses from scratch.

Each of these roles is critical. But very few people excel in more than one.

Misalignment creates friction

Problems arise when leaders end up in the wrong phase of the business lifecycle. Imagine placing a visionary startup founder into a highly regulated, process-driven corporate environment. Or assigning an operational stabilizer to a chaotic, early-stage venture. In both cases, the leader might be competent—but completely misaligned with what the organization actually needs.

This misalignment leads to:

• Slow decisions

• Frustrated teams

• Lack of momentum

• Declining trust in leadership

It's like asking a sprinter to run a marathon—or worse, to walk it. Wrong pace, wrong terrain, wrong outcome.

Real leadership requires lived experience

I’ve met many startup coaches and innovation consultants who have never actually built or led anything themselves. I’ve seen angel investors give strategic advice based on theory rather than practice—never having built or scaled a team or made high-stakes decisions with incomplete data.

There’s a fundamental question here: How do you guide someone through something you’ve never experienced?

Leadership without experience lacks the texture, humility, and credibility needed to truly connect with and support others. You can read all the frameworks in the world—but without having felt the weight of decisions yourself, it remains abstract.

What’s your sweet spot?

Instead of chasing every leadership opportunity, ask yourself a few grounding questions:

• When do I feel most in flow?

• What type of challenges energize me rather than drain me?

• In which environments do I perform best—early chaos, fast growth, steady optimization, or turbulent decline?

Knowing your leadership sweet spot helps you:

• Choose the right roles and environments

• Avoid unnecessary burnout

• Build teams that complement your gaps

• Create real impact—where your skills naturally shine

Build a band, not a hero culture

The best organizations don’t rely on one superhero leader to handle everything. They build leadership bands—teams where different people lead at different times, depending on the phase and challenge.

• Just like in a jazz band, every role matters:

• Some lead with bold improvisation

• Others hold the rhythm

• And some bring harmony and cohesion

You need them all. And you need to know when to pass the solo.

Final Thought

Leadership isn’t about doing it all. It’s about knowing where you lead best—and having the self-awareness to step up when it’s your time, or step back when it’s not.

If you’re coaching, investing, or advising—ask yourself: Am I speaking from experience, or just theory? And am I aligned with the phase where I can create the most value?

That clarity could be the difference between impact and irrelevance.

Let’s talk.

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